What happens when our lives get so caught up in the urgency of this world that we spin out of control?
Without a doubt, things are very different today that when I was a wee lass. Sometimes back then things took a crazy long time to discover and then consider, ponder, and act upon. It could be frustrating at times and we twiddled our thumbs endlessly while looking for answers. But it was also comfortable, because, we had time to weigh the pros and cons of things, before we had to make a big step.
Today, we are rationally allowed maybe three seconds to come to a decision before we click to another page and leave behind something that might be relevant. We might leave behind something compelling, something we could focus on and delight in, something or someone that might give us great pleasure.
Recently, I’ve seen entire families sitting together in restaurants, all eyes glued to their cell phones, missing the moment, the precious time they might be chatting and interchanging ideas with their loved ones. I’ve also talked to people, even some very young ones, who leave their cells at home, explaining that it was important to them to make sure they were not ‘on call’ to their friends and the Internet 24/7. They tell me they may incur the wrath of their freaky Internet friends, but at least they are composed and relaxed, not driven and controlled by the Internet.
Now I find myself leaving my cell phone behind. Funny…when the Internet came along, I replied to every email within seconds or minutes. Today I might take a day to look, or if I take a day off, I wait until the day I get back to work 🙂 Ahhh…now I can relax and enjoy my correspondence more.
It’s time to lay down in the grass and watch the clouds roll by, to sit and hold hands quietly and enjoy anothers’ company, to read books – yes – maybe even and old fashioned book! Touch the pages, smell it, dog ear the pages…read it again and again.
Technology has taken us to a much faster place, but I believe we can still have technology while enjoying our earthly life…learning to re-focus…slow down…enjoy…connect…remembering to be present and consider what is important in the grand scheme of things.
Technology is a good thing – it has thrown us ahead at a fast pace to a new paradigm that may be the greatest one of all history. Take the good parts of it and thrive. But do not be controlled by it, use it to exploit, or for greed.